Wednesday, December 05, 2007 10:45 Y
You know, I was listening to the radio yesterday & they were discussing about this topic;
"Which is more important, friends or partners?" Well, I think it's a good topic to be discussed. Personally I feel that friends are definitely more important(apart from families). You see, friends are like treasures, they are rare. I'm not saying that partners are not precious but your partner can't possibly help you if you two argue, right? Basically, when you have a tiff with your partner, you'll naturally look for your friends or families for help and support. It's hard to find a friend who truly understands you. If you lose that kind of friend, then you yourself will lose out. But if you lose a partner, you can easily find another one. Well, not really easily but try to find someone better than the previous one. It only means that that person is not the right life partner for you. It's a torture to lose someone you love, I know how it feels. I've been there myself. But losing a friend is worse, trust me. I just can't understand why some people fall out with families & friends just because of a girl/guy. I mean, it's not as if it's the end of the world if that person leaves you. Another example is, if you like a friend of yours but the latter doesn't, then it's better to remain friends. Let's say that you've known your friend for quite some time & you've grown really close together, and you went into a relationship with that person which in the end doesn't work out. Wouldn't it be awkward to be friends later? I mean, that's how I usually feel. Every individual feels different, I know. Anyway, these are opinion to the topic that was discussed yesterday.
& I miss Naszrul & Daryan most!& GuardianAngels, Eiiqah & Girlfriends. <33